I've been with the same woman for almost 8 years, and were were virgins when we met. About 2.5 years ago (in October in 2003), I messed up and received unprotected
oralChondromalacia patella
Deep venous thrombosis, iliofemoral
Dermatitis, perioral
Femoral hernia
Femoral nerve damage
Femoral nerve dysfunction
Forehead lift
Glucose tolerance test
Herpes labialis (oral herpes simplex)
Oral anatomy
Oral cancer from a friend. Here's what happened since:
November 2003:
- about 2 weeks after the encounter I experience intense
painAbdominal pain
Abdominal pain diagnosis
Alternative medicine - pain relief
Ankle pain
Anterior knee pain
Back pain - low
Bone pain or tenderness
Breast pain
Causes of painful intercourse
Chest pain
Chronic pain - resources in the
testesTesticular cancer
Undescended testicle- foolishly continue to have unprotected
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex (other than
birthBirth control and family planning control) with my girfriend
January of 2004
-my girlfrend starts to get monthly
yeastVaginal yeast infection
Yeast and mold
Yeast infections infectionsAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute. She has a history of getting them maybe once every 6 months or so, just not this frequently, or as bad (her thighs had severe
rashBabies and heat rashes
Diaper rash
Drug rash on the back
Drug rash, tegretol
Heat rash
Infant heat rash
Poison ivy - oak - sumac rash
Poison oak rash on the arm
Rash
Rashes
Scabies rash and excoriation on the hand on them, and it burnt when she urinated, although she also has a brief history of
urinaryBladder outlet obstruction
Bladder stones
Calcium - urine
Chloride - urine
Cortisol - urine
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Female urinary tract
Frequent or urgent urination
Inflatable artificial sphincter
Kidney infection (pyelonephritis)
Lh urine test (home test) tract
infectionsAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute).
June 2004 (7 months after the
oralChondromalacia patella
Deep venous thrombosis, iliofemoral
Dermatitis, perioral
Femoral hernia
Femoral nerve damage
Femoral nerve dysfunction
Forehead lift
Glucose tolerance test
Herpes labialis (oral herpes simplex)
Oral anatomy
Oral cancer from the friend)
-
yeastVaginal yeast infection
Yeast and mold
Yeast infections infectionsAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute continue, and I confess. We get tested for
STDStds and ecological niches's (
chlamydiaChlamydia
Chlamydia infections in women
Chlamydial urethritis - male, gonerrha,
syphilisCongenital syphilis
Late-stage syphilis
Primary syphilis
Syphilis
Syphilis - primary
Syphilis, secondary on the palms,etc... all except
herpesCorneal ulcers and infections
Genital herpes
Herpes - resources
Herpes esophagitis
Herpes labialis (oral herpes simplex)
Herpes simplex
Herpes simplex - close-up
Herpes zoster
Herpes zoster (shingles) - close-up of lesion
Herpes zoster (shingles) on the arm
Herpes zoster (shingles) on the back. The girl I got the
oralChondromalacia patella
Deep venous thrombosis, iliofemoral
Dermatitis, perioral
Femoral hernia
Femoral nerve damage
Femoral nerve dysfunction
Forehead lift
Glucose tolerance test
Herpes labialis (oral herpes simplex)
Oral anatomy
Oral cancer from said she doesn't have it and I believe her, even though she does has a "past"). Everything came
backBack pain - low
Back strain treatment negative.
- I'm finally diagnosed with a
bacterialBacterial gastroenteritis
Campylobacter enteritis
Cellulitis
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Cystitis - noninfectious
Labyrinthitis
Prostatitis - chronic
Prostatitis - nonbacterial infectionAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute/prostatitis through an
ultrasound17 week ultrasound
30 week ultrasound
Abdominal ultrasound
Breast ultrasound
Carotid duplex
Doppler ultrasound exam of an arm or leg
Duplex/doppler ultrasound test
Echocardiogram
Eye and orbit ultrasound
Intravascular ultrasound
Pregnancy ultrasound. I'm put on
doxycycline on and off for about 3-4 months.
July 2004-December 2004
- eventually, my gf is diganosed with a
bacterialBacterial gastroenteritis
Campylobacter enteritis
Cellulitis
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Cystitis - noninfectious
Labyrinthitis
Prostatitis - chronic
Prostatitis - nonbacterial infectionAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute too, and she is given meds which
clearClear by design
Clear eyes
Clear eyes acr
Clear eyes clr it up.
YeastVaginal yeast infection
Yeast and mold
Yeast infections infectionsAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute cease (finally). In addition to the
yeastVaginal yeast infection
Yeast and mold
Yeast infections infectionsAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute, my girlfriend also complains of being "irritated". Her
vaginalAnterior vaginal wall repair
Causes of vaginal itching
Culture - endocervix
Hydrocele
Hysterectomy
Transvaginal ultrasound
Vaginal bleeding between periods
Vaginal bleeding during pregnancy
Vaginal bleeding in pregnancy
Vaginal cysts
Vaginal discharge area is really red.
January-August 2005
- girlfriend goes from doctor to doctor to find out what is causing her irritation, but to no avail. It eventually subsides on its own for awhile.
October 2005
- irritation returns. She is finally given
amitriptylineAmitriptyline
Amitriptyline-chlordiazepoxide
Amitriptyline-perphenazine and it works, as her doctor says that all the different meds she was on in an attempt to cure her
yeastVaginal yeast infection
Yeast and mold
Yeast infections infectionsAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute messed her up and made the
nerveNerve biopsy
Nerve conduction velocity endings of her vagina really sensitve.
Januray 2006
- now that the
amitriptylineAmitriptyline
Amitriptyline-chlordiazepoxide
Amitriptyline-perphenazine is done, the irritation is
backBack pain - low
Back strain treatment (just not as bad as before). My
testesTesticular cancer
Undescended testicle painAbdominal pain
Abdominal pain diagnosis
Alternative medicine - pain relief
Ankle pain
Anterior knee pain
Back pain - low
Bone pain or tenderness
Breast pain
Causes of painful intercourse
Chest pain
Chronic pain - resources (which is more of an "ache" now) has never really gone away either, and it's been 2.5 years. My gf also misses her period. Home
pregnancyAdolescent pregnancy
Early weeks of pregnancy
Ectopic pregnancy
Fetal alcohol syndrome
First trimester of pregnancy
Gestational diabetes
Hydatidiform mole
Hyperemesis gravidarum
Melasma
Preeclampsia
Pregnancy - health risks test is negative.
My questions:
1) from all the doctors I saw (
familyBirth control and family planning
Choosing a primary care provider
Ewing’s sarcoma
Family troubles - resources,
STDStds and ecological niches clinic and urologist) "NGU" never once came up. Would the
STDStds and ecological niches tests have detected NGU (especially the
chlamydiaChlamydia
Chlamydia infections in women
Chlamydial urethritis - male and gonerrha tests), even if the doctors didn't think to specifically look for it? Eveything was done through
urineCalcium - urine
Calcium urine test
Chloride - urine
Cortisol - urine
Electrolytes - urine
Glucose test - urine
Hcg in urine
Ketones - urine
Kidney - blood and urine flow
Lh urine test (home test)
Ph urine test samples for me, and by swabs/urine for my gf. It never burned when I urinated, nor did I ever have any
dischargeAbnormal discharge from the nipple
Ear discharge
Eye burning - itching and discharge
Nasal discharge
Nipple discharge - abnormal
Urethral discharge culture
Vaginal discharge.
2) we weren't tested for
STDStds and ecological niches's until 7 months after the exposure. Could that have made a difference in anything?
3) If it is NGU - could that be the culprit for the
yeastVaginal yeast infection
Yeast and mold
Yeast infections and
bacterialBacterial gastroenteritis
Campylobacter enteritis
Cellulitis
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Cystitis - noninfectious
Labyrinthitis
Prostatitis - chronic
Prostatitis - nonbacterial infectionsAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute, and her recently missed period 2.5 years later? What about her
rednessEye redness
Fatigue
Mastoiditis - redness and swelling behind ear
Rashes? Any
fearFears and phobias of
infertilityInfertility
Infertility - resources
Primary infertility for either of us?
4) The
oralChondromalacia patella
Deep venous thrombosis, iliofemoral
Dermatitis, perioral
Femoral hernia
Femoral nerve damage
Femoral nerve dysfunction
Forehead lift
Glucose tolerance test
Herpes labialis (oral herpes simplex)
Oral anatomy
Oral cancer 2.5 years ago is always in the
backBack pain - low
Back strain treatment of our minds. Does it have ANYTHING to do with what she's going through?
Just out of curiosity, in response to my first question, do the standard chlamydia and gonerrha tests detect NGU, understanding that they can be difficult to distinguish from one another?
If there's no particular reason why she was taken off it, maybe she could talk with her doctor about starting it again.
One more thing doctor, I noticed that when I drink caffine, my discomfort resumes... is that a sign of it not being NGU as well?
Is it possible your gf has vulvar vestibulitis? It suddenly dawned on me that her symptoms sound very similar to a woman on another board I frequent, who was regularly posting her treatment updates. It's not really known what causes it, but it looks like HPV, repeated yeast infections/BV, chemical irritation, etc. are good possibilities. Amitriptyline is one method of treatment. Surgery is another (although I'd say that would be a last resort!). Do a search for more info.
I guess I do and I don't really understand not wanting to take medications for the rest of her life. It seems to me that if it works, and she's in pain without it, that's a pretty strong argument for continuing. Besides, look at it this way: what if she had high blood pressure, or she were diabetic? Would she still refuse meds?
In the meantime, here are some other things she can do: avoid tight pants/jeans, wear only cotton underwear, use unscented/hypoallergenic detergent, no soap on her vulva... there are a bunch of things that can help. She might want to consider seeing a pelvic pain specialist, as well as a sex therapist to help her deal with the emotional aspect of all of this.
Caffeine naturally increases bladder tone and it also is a mild diuretic (i.e., increases urine output). Most people who ingest caffeine have to urinate more frequently and/or more urgently, and it isn't just because of the water intake in the coffee or soft drink.
I agree completely with monkeyflower's last comment.
HHH, MD