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As far as my second partner goes she was very angry with me for a long time and we didn't speak for many years. I guess she was mad b/c she thought I was blaming her for my problem. We actually both relocated and ended up now livingAdvanced care directives 5 houses apart on the same street!
I really do appreciate the way you give answers to us here at this forum. Most of us are either scared or confused. You have a way of answering without panicking us. For that I thank you very much. I am glad that Medhelp has the STDStds and ecological niches forum, but I am very thankful that you are the person that is answering our questions.
And of course I can't advise about your relationship with your former partner. But I can't resist saying we are all very different people than we were 16 years ago, and none of us wants to be judged forever by how we behaved in our teens or early twentiesTwenty twenty. (A gentleman known as W comes to mind.) Seems to me it's time to get over it.
You mentioned bacterial vaginosis. If the supposed virgin had bacterial vaginosis could that have caused my NGU? I realize that I have had an STD (As much as I wouuld like to think that I haven't), but what I am wondering is if the supposed virgin had bacterial vaginosis could she have had that without receiving an STD from someone else? Could that have been just some sort of female problem that she was having at the time. She was 16 at the time if that makes a difference.
Part of me is hoping that she just had some type of female problem and that it wasn't because she had received an STD from someone else and then passed it to me. I hope this makes sense.
As far as my second partner goes she was very angry with me for a long time and we didn't speak for many years. I guess she was mad b/c she thought I was blaming her for my problem. We actually both relocated and ended up now living 5 houses apart on the same street!
Our kids go to the same school and she will speak to me, but we don't converse. The supposed virgin is also fine. She is married with two kids.
I really do appreciate the way you give answers to us here at this forum. Most of us are either scared or confused. You have a way of answering without panicking us. For that I thank you very much. I am glad that Medhelp has the STD forum, but I am very thankful that you are the person that is answering our questions.
And of course I can't advise about your relationship with your former partner. But I can't resist saying we are all very different people than we were 16 years ago, and none of us wants to be judged forever by how we behaved in our teens or early twenties. (A gentleman known as W comes to mind.) Seems to me it's time to get over it.
Good luck-- HHH, MD