It is possible your partner acquired
HPVGenital warts from you, but it is equally possible she had it for a long time. SIL, either low-grade (LSIL) or high-grade (HSIL) can develop anywhere from a few weeks to years after catching
HPVGenital warts, so that doesn't help one way or the other. Tell your girlfriend that everybody gets
HPVGenital warts sometime, somewhere. You'll probably never know whether you are currently infected with the same
HPVGenital warts strainStrains she has--but if you are, it is equally probably that you caught it from her as the other way around. Couples with
HPVGenital warts should just accept it and not worry about it. With proper health care for her abnormal
papPap smear
Pap smears and cervical cancer, nothing bad will come from it anyway--some inconvenience, but no serious health threat.
As for your other questions, the other things you describe are not directly related to one another. All sexually active women are at risk for
UTIAbortion - elective or therapeutic
Autism
Autism - resources
Autistic behavior
Cutis marmorata on the leg
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Epstein-barr virus test
Excessive or unwanted hair in women
Febrile/cold agglutinins
Institutional hygiene
Mononucleosis spot test. It's not sexually transmitted, but
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex tends to massage bacteria into the urethra.
YeastVaginal yeast infection
Yeast and mold
Yeast infections infectionsAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute are
commonCommon cold in all women.
But I'm slightly more concerned by your symptoms, in combination with your partner having a couple of otherwise unexplained
genitalBirthmarks - pigmented
Congenital cataract
Congenital heart defect corrective surgery
Congenital heart disease
Congenital hip dislocation
Congenital syphilis
Congenital toxoplasmosis
Culture - endocervix
Developmental dysplasia of the hip
Genital herpes
Genital injury infectionsAcute cytomegalovirus (cmv) infection
Acute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Athlete's foot
Breast infection
Cellulitis
Chlamydia infections in women
Common cold
Corneal ulcers and infections
Cystitis - acute bacterial
Ear infection - acute. You should both be tested for
gonorrhea and
chlamydiaChlamydia
Chlamydia infections in women
Chlamydial urethritis - male. Most likely there's nothing there, and if the tests negative in both of you, I wouldn't worry about it.
I hope this helps. Good luck-- HHH, MD
Besides, I don't know much about HPV, but still I kinda doubt that an HPV infection could proceed so quickly. A month from the earliest possible infection to SIL? Sounds unlikely to me. I just checked PubMed, and this might help: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=12953088&dopt=Abstract
oh, and we got tested for gonorrhea and chlamdia (as well as syphillis and HIV) before we began having unprotected sex, and they all came back negative. We thought we were being so responsible. I know HIV might not show for up to six months after infection, but what about gonorrhea and chlamidia?
In answer to some of the other posts, I've never had any signs of HPV, but as you may know ,that's no indication. My girlfriend has had only a very limited number of partners, maybe 2 or 3, and the last one was over a year ago, possibly two years ago. While i've been more active. I always tried to be responsible: condoms, testing for HIV and other STD's every year or so, but i never even heard of HPV or its connection to cervical cancer until now. She did tell me that her ex-boyfriend from a couple years ago had been through an episode long AFTER they broke up in which he and his current girlfriend had to be treated presumably for genital warts. They found out b/c his current g/f had an abnormal pap. I've read that the strain of HPV that causes warts isn't the same that causes cervical cancer, but what about SIL? I was under the impression too that this ex was a virgin when they were going out, so there might not be any connection there.
At any rate, the blame game is silly, but i'm really worried about how stressed out my girlfriend is, i think its taking a toll on her immune system, and she needs a strong immune system to fight this thing off. I think that's one reason she had all those infections, she gets so stressed out it compromises her body's natural immunity.
Even without treatment, 99% of LSIL or HSIL clears up on its own, ie does not progress to cancer. LEEP and other treatments are designed to prevent an outcome that actually is uncommon. If she follows through with that treatment and her doc's recommended follow-up afterward, she will be 100% protected from progressing to cancer, regardless of her stress.
It is a myth that stress suppresses immunity in the way you imply. Stress has no bearing on her HPV or the other infections you describe. Don't make things worse by getting into a guilt trip, either because she blames you or you blame yourself. Her abnormal pap truly is not your fault, and it isn't fair to you for either of you to let that become the dynamic in your relationship. And if she is stressed, and if there is "blame" for that or for her HPV infection, it is hers as much as yours. She is an adult who decided to become sexually active, and she is experiencing a common and essentially unavoidable consequence of that decision. It's nothing more than that, and it isn't personal--it's a virus. And not a particularly harmful one at that.
At least you don't have gonorrhea or chlamydia--which are more serious health risks than HPV anyway. Chlamydia and gonorrhea tests tests are completely reliable within a few days of catching the infection, by the way.
HHH, MD