Hi Doctor,
My friend, a 27 year old male, went to a massage parlor recently and ordered the full treatment (
intercourseCauses of painful intercourse
Sexual intercourse - painful) as this was the
firstFirst progesterone mc10
First progesterone mc5
First-progesterone vgs 200
First-progesterone vgs 400 time doing so in a situation like this.
During the encounter, the
condomCondoms
Female condoms ripped (rip was big aparently) which he did not realize it had. It had also fallen off.
1) He was in her for 5-10 mins (not sure the exact time but that is close) before he realized it was ripped and fell off, therefore having unprotected
intercourseCauses of painful intercourse
Sexual intercourse - painful for 5-10 mins max (assuming the worse case scenario that it ripped right away)
2) He did not finish. Upon discovery he was panicking. She on the other
handHand or foot spasms
Hand tremor seemed very cool about it, and was more upset that this was the
firstFirst progesterone mc10
First progesterone mc5
First-progesterone vgs 200
First-progesterone vgs 400 time this happened and that she had a
condomCondoms
Female condoms stuck inside.
3) She said she got herself checked and is clean.
4) She apparently was not very wet or anything like that in her vagina, though there might be some fluid inside naturally.
He went and got himself checked the next day, though was told some of the results could take months before it is detectable and that he shouldn’t worry too much. This provided little assurance (he is still in a
panicPanic disorder
Panic disorder with agoraphobia state), so I thought I would post it and try to see whether there is anything to worry about.
1) Because he was in her unprotected for 5-10 mins, what is his probability/risk level in contracting a
STDStds and ecological niches?
2) From what I’ve read in the
HIVAcute hiv infection
Asymptomatic hiv infection
Chills
Early symptomatic hiv infection
Elisa/western blot tests for hiv
Histoplasmosis, disseminated in hiv patient
Hiv
Hiv infection
Hives
Hives (urticaria) - close-up
Hives (urticaria) on the arm section, he has a very low probability, is it
safeSafe driving for teens
Safe sex to assume it is closer to 0%?
3) Should he avoid having
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex with anybody else until he has been tested and confirmed?
Thank you Dr. for all your wonderful work.
If every person who had unprotected sex with a high-risk female partner got tested for STDs and HIV after every encounter, the health system could not handle the volume. Not all commercial sex workers are at equal risk, and one who (apparently) uses condoms routinely may be at very low for carrying an active STD. And even in high risk settings, the risk of infection for any single episode of unprotected vaginal sex is low.
So I disagree that every person in atb's situation should get tested. In men, absence of symptoms after a 2 weeks is a good indicator against the common STDs. Not perfect, but pretty good. (Symptoms mean nothing in regard to HIV, but that risk is extremely low after a single sexual encounter.) Rather than being tested after every such exposure, sexually active heterosexual men outside permanent, committed relationships should get tested for common STDs and HIV on a periodic basis, such as once a year. But not necessarily after any particular exposure, unless there is direct evidence that the partner was known to be infected.
It's a judgment call, though, and one size does not fit all. If atb102 remains nervous and wants the additional reassurance of negative test results, then I suggest he visit his local health department STD clinic 4-6 weeks after exposure and be tested for chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and HIV.
HHH, MD
Thus I imagine there is a wide variety of risk in the world of prostitution - with some prostitutes being more risky than others.
There may be some strange implications in this - is it less risky to have sex with this woman compared to the average person whom you might have just met?
Same goes for acquiring herpes - statistically are you less likely to get herpes from a single encounter with someone who knows they are infected and takes appropriate precautions compared to an average person of unknown status? Bearing in mind that 25% of people have HSV-2 anyway.
I do not know the answers but suggest it is much more grey than you imply in your response.
HHH, MD