I have a question
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University of Washington
Seattle - WA
This forum is for questions and support regarding STD issues such as:
Chlamydia, Crabs (pubic lice scabies),
Gonorrhea, Hepatitis (viral),
Herpes, HPV,
Molluscum Contagiosum, PID, Rectal Infections,
Syphilis,
Trichomoniasis,
Warts,
Yeast Infection.All questions will be answered by H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D. or Edward W Hook, MD.
First, your baby is safe. Herpes can be a problem in pregnancy, but almost all risk to the baby comes when herpes is first acquired toward the end of pregnancy--i.e., after the 6th month or so. Second, you're not going to get herpes from diapering an infected child, even if that baby has the infection (which I agree is extremely unlikely). It is possible to catch herpes by handling lesions, but then your infection would be on your hand or fingers, or perhaps transferred to your eyes--not to your genital area.
Finally, given your sexual history--and also given the possibility (which you don't mention but might be logical) that your husband had other partners when you were separated--consider asking your obstetrician to do a herpes blood test. Even though your risk is low, it sounds to me you are likely to keep worrying about it until you know for certain you are not infected. And if your test happens to be positive (which could be an infection acquired years ago, not necessarily recently), your obstetrician can be on extra alert for symptoms as you approach term, so that if necessary extra steps can be taken to protect the baby.
If you get a herpes test, be sure it is the right kind. The ONLY generally available test that is accurate for this purpose is the Focus Technologies HerpeSelect HSV-2 test. Make sure your doctor orders that test; if the lab s/he normally uses doesn't do that test, insist it be sent to a lab that does. (Alternatively, you could have a Western Blot test for HSV-2, but it is much more expensive and not so widely available.) If your obstetrics provider doesn't know what this is all about, ask him/her to read up on it! (The HerpeSelect test is fairly new, and many labs and health care providers still aren't up to speed on the facts of herpes testing.)
Good luck-- HHH, MD